tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5501231357115295274.post8318451682517207421..comments2024-01-05T15:07:00.889-08:00Comments on The Cat's Pajamas: A Man's Worst NightmareBrian Hubahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01724696780385971950noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5501231357115295274.post-8715727662128473152017-12-12T17:09:25.438-08:002017-12-12T17:09:25.438-08:00Deen followed Holder to the sandwich shop and atta...Deen followed Holder to the sandwich shop and attacked him. His BAC was .29. Justinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06072695992597706526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5501231357115295274.post-43545594587607643682016-06-29T00:36:55.082-07:002016-06-29T00:36:55.082-07:00If you see the entire security video, you would ha...If you see the entire security video, you would have a different opinion. If the guy who walked away was the cop, there would never have been any charges. Even though Holder lost control, I don't have any sympathy for Deen.Egalitarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03295372966181790958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5501231357115295274.post-7612846235712666342016-02-05T16:08:28.377-08:002016-02-05T16:08:28.377-08:00I 100% agree. This is by far the dumbest perspecti...I 100% agree. This is by far the dumbest perspective to take on a man who barely survived. Getting knocked out by a punch can happen to anyone and anyone who has gotten into fights would know that. As for his relationship with his wife, she should ran that asshole over the second he step away from her man Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13186827432051931126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5501231357115295274.post-3119257874806669132015-09-12T17:13:59.833-07:002015-09-12T17:13:59.833-07:00this gave me a good chuckle. why feel bad about em...this gave me a good chuckle. why feel bad about emasculating the abercrombie kid in front of his girl? if he wasn't a pussy, he would have at least stood up for himselfUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14435858650620003030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5501231357115295274.post-16234035317545159832014-11-06T03:43:59.264-08:002014-11-06T03:43:59.264-08:00Thanks for the comment! You're a really good w...Thanks for the comment! You're a really good writer. The Cat's Pajamas is now with the Times Union newspaper. Keep following: http://blog.timesunion.com/brianhuba/<br />Brian Hubahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01724696780385971950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5501231357115295274.post-48004438730563169872014-11-05T17:42:30.107-08:002014-11-05T17:42:30.107-08:00Brian, I found your blog searching for this exact ...Brian, I found your blog searching for this exact topic after reading about the Deen case. I just saw it now for the first time (I know I'm late). In any case, I totally agree with everything you said. I don't think the physical pain is the toughest part for Deen, but the psychological aspect of getting whooped like you've never been whooped before, flailing on the ground like a fish, legs tucked in literally, in front of your newly wed 26 year old wife (they had wed in August of that year). I mean, she clearly didn't want to see it, (and was rightfully scared), and ran into the car. But how could she avoid it? It's everywhere now. <br /><br />So I think above all else, how could he ever feel comfortable around her again? I know this sounds vain and stupid and some people may disagree, but I really think he's screwed in the sense that she will never see him as a protector again, despite the fact that he seems like a fairly tough guy for a 18 year police vet. <br /><br />The romantic nights where he sweet talks her, the aggressive sexual encounters, all gone, because she's going to see him as weak, and that's just reality man, that's the way of the American world, and maybe other places, but women want a man who will stand up for them despite what they say. In this case, it isn't like he lost a one on one battle, that could be overlooked. He got whacked around, as you said, like a pinata. <br /><br />I could only imagine the emotional strain he's enduring. And yes, you're a dick for what you did to the Abercrombie kid, but shit happens, life goes on. Been there, done that, and I'm not proud of it. The one thing I've always feared is getting beat up in front of my girlfriend. Thank God (knock on wood) it has never happened, but that's a huge fear because it sucks the manhood right out of you. <br /><br />To think, that same night before the incident, Holder and his young 26 year old newly wed wife were out drinking, have a good time, getting ready to go home, end the night with some rough sex. And then BAM, this happens, and his world is turned upside down. I seriously cringe everytime I watch this video, because that's all I can think of. He has a nice car, he's clearly trying to impress his young wife, but after this situation, there is no more impressing. What if they one day get into a big argument, and she brings it up, you never know, women can be vicious. How can he comfortably make love to her now? Or go out with her and make her feel safe? Even if she claims it hasn't affected her, he knows it has, and it has thus affected him as well. <br /><br />I truly hope Deen is okay, and he will recover. But ultimately, his ego won't, and he's going to look at Holder, pictures, in court, and feel sick to his stomach. Because that's the man who took his manhood away, and he will never be the same for it again. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5501231357115295274.post-51813602895559764622013-12-24T04:26:45.082-08:002013-12-24T04:26:45.082-08:00Your a fucking moron. Your a fucking moron. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12855963154693784690noreply@blogger.com